Post Breakup Tips

How to make your breakup less painful?

Aries

March 21 - April 19

As Aries natives tend to react first and think second, you should never forget to be more careful when communicating with your Ram ex-partner. You may think that you’ve said something absolutely harmless, but it may have produced a bombshell effect on an Aries representative. However, there is no need to take these anger outbursts too seriously.

The thing is, these outbreaks of fury occur when Aries people believe something threatens their independence, and they won’t last for long. Be more careful when dealing with them, especially if your child is involved in a tricky situation. Don’t forget that in these cases more than two people have to participate in the communication, and try to focus on the positive aspect of the problem.

Taurus

April 20 - May 20

If you’ve ever thought about changing your Aries ex, you’d better stop dreaming about it now. These people are known for their stubbornness and may refuse to compromise only because they want it. The best way of dealing with your Taurean ex-partner is to convey how much this or that problem bothers you. Then they become much more flexible and ready for changes.

Taurus natives respond to encouragement and inspiration much better than to resistance, and you need to keep this in mind if you want to reach the desired result. If your Taurus ex has a habit you dislike, you’d better speak about it calmly without asking him or her to give it up directly. If you let these people move at their own pace, they’ll become more suggestible.

Gemini

May 21 - June 20

It’s often hard to deal with Gemini reps as they speak and think quicker than they feel. What is the best policy when dealing with these people? Honesty, of course. Don’t resort to nasty barbs or brainy comments if you don’t want your verbal conflict to escalate. Instead, be frank and open if you realize that something hurts your feelings – don’t be afraid to speak about your emotions.

Your Gemini ex may be too absorbed into mind games forgetting about the emotional side of things. When communicating with this person, try to appeal to the heart, not to the mind. It will open new horizons in your relationships and will help you manage any situation and resolve any conflict that may sometimes arise between the two of you.

Cancer

June 21 - July 22

Cancerians don’t want to be considered too sensitive that’s why they prefer not to deal with tough issues directly. For example, if Cancer representatives are upset because you’re late they’ll never express their anger or disappointment directly. Instead, they’ll start discussing something that’s unpleasant for you avoiding a tough conversation in this way.

Don’t fall into this trap and ask your Cancer ex-partner why he or she is so upset directly. It will help you avoid unnecessary stress and won’t let your ex beat about the bush. Another important point is that a Cancer person has a very good memory, so don’t even try to argue with him or her about the past if you don’t want to be mocked.

Leo

July 23 - August 22

Leo people love to be adored, and your ex-partner is no exception. Even if you’re not together anymore these people still appreciate it if they’re able to stay in the center of your attention; don’t forget to pay a sincere compliment if you’re eager to achieve your desired aims. However, be careful not to go over the top and make sure your compliments are not mere flattery.

The main problem with your Leo ex is that people born under this sign are typically self-centered and self-absorbed, so you can’t make them give as much as you do. Don’t manipulate them resorting to ultimatums or playing on their sympathy. Let them decide what they should feel and what they should do if you want your relationship to remain healthy.

Virgo

August 23 - September 22

Virgo reps can be overcritical at times, and many people make a huge mistake taking such behavior too personally. Remember they don’t want to criticize you so much, it’s just a part of their nature and they may do it to anyone, especially themselves. Once you realize it your relationship with your Virgo ex will become much warmer.

The best communication pattern for the two of you is avoiding the temptations that can challenge your ex’s critiques. If you see that your Virgo ex-partner is too critical for no reason ask this person more questions to find out why he or she behaves like this. It will make him or her think deeper about the opinions and decisions taken.

Libra

September 23 - October 23

When dealing with Libra ex-partner it really better to have a small argument from time to time if you want to avoid a big quarrel once. Libras are able to play nice for quite a long hiding their true feelings, but one day they run out of patience and turn into a real monster. When it happens, they can remember all the bad things ever done to them.

The key to establishing a good relationship with your Libra ex is being direct all the time without being blunt. In this case, the Libran can feel that he or she can be honest and open with you and will address his or her concerns to you. It will help to release the excess tension and help your Libra ex calm down.

Scorpio

October 24 - November 22

Scorpio ex is a dangerous one, because of all the passion that bubbles inside of them. They may even consider revenge – you made them suffer and they want to see you suffer as well! Luckily for you, this bold act will only have the desired effect if your Scorpio ex sees that their revenge is hurting you.

Make an effort to show them that life is going on and you would like to move on, too. However, try to make it absolutely clear that you neither want to reunite nor have a hidden motive. Keep a distance, but stay friendly enough, and Scorpio will ultimately understand that you can keep a calm connection.

Sagittarius

November 23 - December 21

Sagittarius will not sulk too long after your breakup or overdramatize the events. They will simply go on living, but if you find out you cannot do without their help, feel free to contact them. Don't overindulge in seeking your Sag ex’s help, though – they value commitment and will stay committed to you for as long as you need them; this is not fair.

If you want to stay on friendly terms with your Sag ex, make an effort to stay connected. Remind them about important events, but make sure you do not take up the function of their personal little helper. In other words, stay committed, but keep a distance.

Capricorn

December 22 - January 19

Capricorn is a very vulnerable sign and a very proud, too, so your Sea Goat ex is most likely to take refuge in work overload or to simply avoid you at all costs, even if it seems ridiculous. Another tactic they can resort to is looking for chinks in your armor and poking you in the soft spots.

Things may go as far as, say, a parental neglect lawsuit if Capricorn sees you turn away from your mutual kid on the playground for the shortest moment. Lucky for you, in another short moment, they would often take the blame and admit they are insecure. The best thing you can do is to offer a helping hand – your Capricorn ex is very likely to accept it.

Aquarius

January 20 - February 19

Aquarius probably makes the best ex. They would never fuss about losing a husband or a girlfriend because it is you they love, not the function you perform in their life. When your relationship ends, you will still mean a lot to the Water Bearer you once loved.

The problem that Aquarius may cause is not sulking or stalking, it is the friendliness they still demonstrate. Your current partner may be dissatisfied with your ex always being around as if nothing has happened. To avoid misunderstanding, make sure you limit your interactions with Aquarius to a decent amount and talk it out with your current partner.

Pisces

February 20 - March 20

No matter why your relationship ended, your Pisces ex will always take your breakup very seriously and personally. In fact, if it were for them to decide, Pisceans would sweat their guts out to make your relationship last; they would even try to reanimate it at all costs.

Your role in this mess is not to let your Pisces ex waste their effort in vain and to explain to them it is better to move on and continue to communicate as friends. Since your being together may have been their dream, you need to think of something to shift their focus onto. In other words, help your Pisces ex find a new dream.